The Science of Reconnection: Using Somatic Therapy to Heal After Relationship Trauma

Discover how somatic therapy helps couples repair after betrayal, conflict, or emotional disconnection by healing the nervous system. Learn how body-based, trauma-informed approaches restore safety, trust, and intimacy in relationships.

Somatic Therapy in Couples Work: A Body-Based Path to Reconnection

Have you ever tried to fix a conflict with your partner through calm words—only to feel stuck in the same cycle of disconnection, tension, or shutdown?

It’s a common and deeply painful experience: after an emotional rupture—whether it’s betrayal, chronic conflict, or emotional withdrawal—many couples struggle to feel safe with one another again. They may say all the right things, but the feeling of closeness never quite returns.

That’s because healing isn’t just cognitive—it’s somatic.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we specialize in helping couples heal through the lens of trauma-informed, body-based therapy. Using approaches grounded in neuroscience and somatic psychology, we help couples move beyond communication scripts and into the deeper work of nervous system repair, embodied safety, and relational trust.

💔 What Happens in the Body During a Relationship Rupture?

When a rupture happens—whether it’s a fight, betrayal, or repeated disconnection—your nervous system perceives danger. You may:

     – Go into fight mode (arguing, blaming, controlling)
    – Shut down into freeze (going numb, stonewalling)
    – Move into flight (emotionally or physically distancing)
    – Fawn to avoid conflict (self-abandonment, appeasing)

These responses aren’t character flaws—they’re biological survival strategies. According to the polyvagal theory, our nervous systems are constantly scanning for cues of safety or threat (Porges, 2011). When emotional safety breaks down in a relationship, the body responds to protect itself—even if that protection looks like defensiveness, withdrawal, or numbness.

This is why rational conversation often fails after conflict. The couple may try to “talk it through,” but one or both partners are stuck in a protective response—unable to truly listen, feel, or connect.

🌿 Why Somatic Therapy Helps Where Words Fall Short

Somatic therapy brings the body into the healing process. Rather than relying solely on conversation, it supports couples in:

     – Noticing nervous system patterns that show up in conflict
    – Regulating emotional intensity through breath, movement, and sensation
    – Creating new embodied experiences of connection and repair
    – Building co-regulation skills to calm and soothe each other in real time

In couples therapy, we often begin by helping each partner learn their own nervous system patterns—when they get activated, how it feels in the body, and what helps them return to a sense of safety.

From there, we guide the couple through mindful, body-aware repair practices that allow them to reconnect through shared presence rather than pressure or performance.

🔄 What Somatic Couples Therapy Might Look Like

In a somatic session, we might:

     – Invite a partner to notice where they feel tension when recalling a recent conflict
    – Practice grounding and orienting to settle the body before dialogue
    – Use gentle touch or eye contact (with consent) to explore felt safety
    – Support one partner in co-regulating the other through breath and voice
    – Guide partners to identify somatic boundaries and express them safely

These practices help rewire not just beliefs but also the felt sense of the relationship. Instead of replaying old emotional patterns, couples build new neural circuits of safety, trust, and responsiveness (Siegel, 2010).

🧠 The Neuroscience of Repair

When safety and connection are present, the body moves into the ventral vagal state—a regulated nervous system mode where empathy, curiosity, and intimacy are possible. From this state:

     – Partners can access vulnerability
    – Old trauma responses soften
    – Emotional repair becomes embodied, not forced
    – The brain releases oxytocin (bonding hormone), creating trust and closeness

Somatic therapy isn’t just about calming down—it’s about creating a new experience in the body that contradicts the trauma of disconnection.

💬 Common Questions Couples Ask After a Rupture

     – “Can we ever truly trust each other again?”
    – “Why do I shut down when we get close?”
    – “Why do I feel so anxious—even when things are going well?”
    – “How do we reconnect after betrayal?”
    – “We’ve done talk therapy—why does nothing change?”

These questions reveal deeper layers of attachment wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and trauma stored in the body. Somatic couples therapy helps answer these questions through experience, not just explanation.

🌱 Hope Is Found in the Body

One of the most powerful realizations in somatic work is this: your body wants to heal.
It doesn’t need to be forced or fixed—it simply needs the right conditions for safety, connection, and attunement.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we support couples in building:

     – Emotional attunement through right-brain-to-right-brain presence
    – Secure attachment through consistent repair
    – Embodied trust by co-regulating in moments of conflict and closeness
    – Resilience to navigate future challenges with compassion

Whether you're healing from betrayal, navigating intimacy issues, or struggling with emotional reactivity, somatic therapy offers a path back to each other—through the innate intelligence of the body.

❤️‍🩹 How We Work at Embodied Wellness and Recovery

We offer trauma-informed couples therapy rooted in:

     – Somatic Experiencing® and body-based trauma healing
    – Attachment-Focused EMDR
    – Polyvagal-informed practices
    – Relational neuroscience and nervous system education

Serving couples in Los Angeles, Nashville, and virtually, we tailor each session to the unique emotional and physiological needs of each relationship. Our goal is not just to resolve conflict but to help partners feel deeply connected, safe, and whole together.

Your relationship deserves healing that goes deeper than words.
At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we’re here to help you rediscover each other with presence, safety, and compassion.

Repair doesn’t happen through words—it happens through presence. Let us walk with you. Schedule a free 20-minute consultation with our team of top-rated couples therapists, somatic practitioners, EMDR providers, and trauma specialists and begin your journey to reconnection today.

🧠 Schedule a consultation with a somatic couples therapist
🌿 Learn more about our trauma-informed relationship therapy
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References 

Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation. W. W. Norton & Company.

Siegel, D. J. (2010). The Mindful Therapist: A Clinician's Guide to Mindsight and Neural Integration. W. W. Norton & Company.

Levine, P. A. (2010). In an Unspoken Voice: How the Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness. North Atlantic Books.

Innovative Intimacy: How Modern Healing Tools Are Transforming Our Relationships

Struggling with intimacy or disconnection in your relationship? Explore emerging trends in sexual wellness—like multisensory integration and intimacy technology—that are redefining how we connect. Learn how holistic approaches can support deeper pleasure, safety, and emotional intimacy.

Innovative Approaches to Sexual Wellness and Intimacy

Have you ever felt emotionally disconnected during sex—even with someone you love?
Or maybe you find yourself struggling with arousal, vulnerability, or shame when it comes to physical intimacy?

You’re not alone.

Many individuals and couples quietly wrestle with intimacy challenges—whether due to past trauma, performance anxiety, emotional disconnection, or chronic stress. And while traditional therapy and communication skills can be helpful, a new wave of innovative, holistic approaches to sexual wellness is transforming how we understand and experience connection,  pleasure, and healing.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we specialize in helping clients navigate complex issues around sexuality, intimacy, and relational trauma—with approaches that are grounded in neuroscience and somatic therapy. Let’s explore what’s emerging—and why it matters.

The Intimacy Gap: A Widespread But Often Silent Struggle

Intimacy isn’t just about physical closeness—it’s about feeling emotionally and energetically connected to ourselves and our partners. But for many, this connection is disrupted by:

     – Unprocessed relational trauma
    – Shame around sexual identity or desire

     – Mismatched libidos or desire discrepancies
    – Chronic stress, anxiety, or body image issues
     – Lack of nervous system safety during physical touch

These experiences are often symptoms of deeper emotional wounds—and they can make intimacy feel overwhelming or even unsafe.

So what’s shifting? Today’s most exciting developments in sexual wellness integrate neuroscience, somatics, and technology to help us reconnect on every level.

1. Multisensory Integration: Healing Through the Body

Multisensory integration is a therapeutic approach that engages multiple senses at once—touch, sound, scent, movement—to regulate the nervous system and increase embodied awareness.

In the context of sexual wellness, this might include:

     – Somatic breathwork or body-based mindfulness practices
    – Aromatherapy or soundscapes designed to promote safety and arousal
     – Guided touch exercises with a partner to enhance emotional presence
    – Use of weighted blankets, warm stones, or textured fabrics to deepen sensory engagement

Why it works:
According to the polyvagal theory, safety is a prerequisite for intimacy. Engaging multiple senses activates the ventral vagal pathway, signaling to the brain and body that it’s safe to connect and receive pleasure.

“Our ability to feel pleasure is directly tied to how safe we feel in our bodies,” says Dr. Stephen Porges (2011). “When the nervous system is dysregulated, connection shuts down.”

Multisensory integration not only supports sexual healing but also helps people reclaim agency over their bodies—especially after trauma or shame-based conditioning.

2. The Role of Somatic Therapy in Sexual Healing

Somatic therapy focuses on the body’s experience of emotion, memory, and safety. It’s especially helpful for individuals who struggle to feel present or connected during physical intimacy.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we use somatic therapy to:

     – Help clients locate and soothe physical tension that blocks pleasure
     – Repattern touch experiences using consent-based exercises
     – Build a greater sense of internal yes and authentic no
    – Rewire shame-based responses through body-positive, trauma-informed care

This approach teaches clients to tune into their body’s messages—moving from performance or anxiety-driven intimacy to embodied, present-moment connection.

3. The Rise of Intimacy Tech: Tools That Support Connection

Technology is also stepping into the sexual wellness space—but not in the way you might think.

Today’s intimacy-focused tech is about deepening presence, consent, and connection, not just stimulation. Examples include:

     – Wearables and apps that track emotional states or biofeedback for couples
    – AI-guided meditations that support intimacy rituals and emotional attunement
     – Interactive sensory tools that allow for long-distance touch and shared pleasure
     – Virtual reality experiences designed for somatic healing or self-connection

Used intentionally, these tools can support couples in creating rituals of connection, especially in long-distance or emotionally strained relationships. And for individuals recovering from sexual trauma or disconnection, they offer a gentle, empowering way to re-enter the realm of sensuality and pleasure.

4. Trauma-Informed Sexual Wellness: The Missing Link

Many people struggling with intimacy have histories of sexual trauma, boundary violations, or early attachment wounds. Without trauma-informed care, efforts to “improve sex” can actually retraumatize.

That’s why at Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we offer:

     – Attachment-focused EMDR to process relational and sexual trauma
     – Parts work to support internal alignment and consent
    – Somatic experiencing to restore safety and regulation
     – Relational therapy to repair trust and rebuild intimacy from the ground up

We understand that sexuality isn’t just physical—it’s emotional, neurological, and spiritual. And healing it requires more than tips and techniques. It requires compassionate attunement and whole-person integration.

5. Pleasure as a Path to Healing

Pleasure isn’t a luxury. It’s a biological necessity for healing, according to researchers like Bessel van der Kolk (2014), who emphasize that trauma recovery must include pathways back to joy and connection.

When we reclaim pleasure—through touch, creativity, movement, or intimacy—we:

     – Activate the brain’s reward and bonding centers
    – Boost oxytocin and reduce cortisol
    – Rewire patterns of fear and avoidance
    – Feel more alive, connected, and whole

What If Intimacy Became a Journey of Discovery—Not Obligation?

Ask yourself:

     – What would it feel like to be fully present and safe in your body during sex?
    – What if pleasure didn’t have to be performative but authentic and mutual?
    – What if intimacy became a space for healing, not pressure or pain?

This is the future of sexual wellness—and it’s already here.

How We Support Sexual Wellness at Embodied Wellness and Recovery

Our practice offers a safe, inclusive, and science-backed space for clients to explore:

     – Sexual identity and shame
    – Relationship and intimacy challenges
    – Desire discrepancies

     – Recovery from sexual trauma
    – Expanding pleasure and embodiment

With clinicians trained in somatic therapy, trauma-informed care, and relational healing, we offer both individual and couples therapy tailored to your unique experience and needs.

Intimacy is not about perfection—it’s about presence.

📅 Ready to explore a new path to connection, pleasure, and healing?
🧠 Schedule a free 20 minute-consultation with one of our trauma-informed therapists.
🌿 Serving clients in Los Angeles, Nashville, and virtually.

Start your journey to deeper intimacy!

📞 Call us at (310) 651-8458

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References

Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation. W. W. Norton & Company.

Van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking.

Levine, P. A. (2010). In an Unspoken voice: How the Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness. North Atlantic Books.

Think EMDR Is Only for Trauma Survivors? Here’s How It Helps with Anxiety, Perfectionism, and More

Think EMDR is only for PTSD or abuse? Think again. EMDR therapy is a powerful tool for healing attachment wounds, anxiety, perfectionism, body image struggles, and even money blocks. Discover how this neuroscience-backed therapy can transform your emotional health.

Think EMDR Is Only for War or Abuse Survivors? Think Again.

When you hear the word trauma, what comes to mind?
Combat veterans. Abuse survivors. Catastrophic events.

But what if your trauma doesn't look like that?
What if you’re silently suffering from chronic anxiety, perfectionism, a painful breakup, or money shame—and no one has ever called it “trauma”?

You’re not alone—and yes, EMDR therapy can help.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we specialize in treating both “big T” and “small t” traumas—those everyday emotional injuries that often go unseen but deeply shape your nervous system, beliefs, and relationships.

What Is EMDR—And How Does It Actually Work?

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a highly effective, neuroscience-based therapy that helps people process and integrate distressing memories and emotional patterns.

Originally developed to treat PTSD, EMDR works by using bilateral stimulation (like guided eye movements or tapping) to activate both hemispheres of the brain while revisiting unresolved emotional experiences.

This process allows your brain to “digest” unprocessed memories, resolve emotional blocks, and replace negative beliefs with healthier, adaptive ones.

“Small T” Trauma: The Invisible Injuries That Linger

While “big T” trauma refers to life-threatening events, “small t” trauma includes the chronic, cumulative, or subtle experiences that dysregulate your nervous system and shape your sense of safety, self-worth, and identity.

Examples include:

     – Repeated criticism or emotional neglect in childhood

     – Being shamed for expressing emotions
    – Breakups that left you questioning your worth
    – Feeling like love had to be earned
    – Constant pressure to be perfect or high achieving
    – Financial instability or inherited beliefs around money

These experiences don’t need to be extreme to be traumatic. They live in your body, distort your beliefs, and fuel anxiety, shame, and self-sabotage.

The Neuroscience of EMDR and Emotional Healing

Your nervous system remembers.

When something painful happens—especially if you were too young to process it or lacked emotional support—your brain stores that experience in a “frozen” state. Triggers in the present moment can then reactivate the original fear, shame, or powerlessness.

This is why:

     – A colleague’s tone can make you feel like a scolded child
    – A dating rejection spirals into “I’m not lovable.”
    – Looking at your bank account floods you with anxiety and guilt

EMDR targets these emotionally encoded experiences and, through dual attention stimulation, helps your brain complete the healing cycle. It rewires how your nervous system responds and reshapes your core beliefs.

As Siegel (2012) explains, integration—the linking of differentiated parts of the brain—is the foundation of mental health. EMDR facilitates this process.

What EMDR Can Help You Heal—Beyond PTSD

EMDR is a powerful tool for healing non-traditional traumas that still have a profound emotional impact.

✔️ Attachment Wounds

     – Heal the internalized belief that “I’m not enough” or “I’m too much.”
    – Reprocess early experiences of neglect, abandonment, or inconsistent caregiving
    – Learn to feel safe in relationships and trust emotional connection

✔️ Breakups and Relationship Trauma

     – Unhook from obsessive thoughts about an ex
    – Process betrayal, loss, or relational patterns rooted in childhood
    – Shift from shame and blame to clarity and self-compassion

✔️ Chronic Anxiety and Hypervigilance

      – Target the root causes of your nervous system’s overdrive
      – Address unmet needs for safety, control, and certainty
      – Reclaim your calm and clarity

✔️ Body Image and Shame

     – Process experiences of body-based bullying or criticism
    – Release internalized appearance standards or weight trauma

   Learn to relate to your body with compassion instead of punishment

✔️ Perfectionism and Burnout

     – Heal the internalized voice that says, “You’re only worthy if you’re achievin.”
    – Reprocess experiences of conditional love or high parental expectations
    – Begin to rest without guilt and live without constantly proving yourself

✔️ Money Blocks and Financial Shame

     – Address inherited beliefs like “money is bad,” “I’ll never have enough,” 

     – Heal the emotional charge around debt, spending, or financial mistakes
    – Build new, empowered neural pathways for abundance and stability

Why Traditional Talk Therapy May Not Be Enough

Talk therapy can provide insight, validation, and coping skills, but when your trauma lives in the non-verbal, emotional brain, words alone often can't reach it.

EMDR bypasses the logical brain and goes straight to the root, allowing you to feel different, not just think differently.

As Parnell (2013) emphasizes, trauma is not simply a memory—it is a lived experience stored in the nervous system, EMDR helps you shift from survival to safety.

You Don’t Have to Be in Crisis to Heal

If you’ve ever thought:

     – “I know it wasn’t abuse, but it still really hurt.”
    – “Why can’t I get over this breakup?”

     – “Why do I feel so anxious all the time?”
    – “I should be grateful, but I still feel empty.”
    – “I’m tired of trying to be perfect.”
     

Tthen EMDR might be the missing piece.

How We Use EMDR at Embodied Wellness & Recovery

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we offer trauma-informed, somatic, and attachment-focused EMDR for a wide range of concerns—not just PTSD.

Our clinicians are trained in:

     – Attachment-Focused EMDR
    – Somatic integration and resourcing
    – EMDR for complex trauma, anxiety, and emotional wounds
    – Personalized EMDR intensives for accelerated healing

Whether you're processing long-standing patterns or seeking clarity after a recent emotional upheaval, we offer compassionate, neuroscience-backed care tailored to your individual needs.

EMDR is for anyone carrying invisible pain. You don’t need a diagnosis to deserve healing.

✨ Ready to explore how EMDR can help you heal and grow?
🧠 Book a consultation with one of our trauma-informed therapists.
🌱 Learn about our personalized EMDR intensives.
📍 Available in Los Angeles, Nashville, and virtually.

Reach out to schedule your free 20-minute consultation with our team of top-rated EMDR providers or somatic practitioners and begin your path to healing today.

📞 Call us at (310) 651-8458

📱 Text us at (310) 210-7934

📩 Email us at admin@embodiedwellnessandrecovery.com

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👉 Check us out on Instagram @embodied_wellness_and_recovery

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References 

Parnell, L. (2013). Attachment-focused EMDR: Healing Relational Trauma. W. W. Norton & Company.

Siegel, D. J. (2012). The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are (2nd ed.). The Guilford Press.

Van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking.

Bombarded by Bad News? How Violent Media Affects Your Brain and What You Can Do About It

Violent news coverage and social media content can take a serious toll on your mental health. Learn how media violence affects the brain, why emotional dysregulation occurs, and how Embodied Wellness and Recovery helps individuals heal from trauma and anxiety with neuroscience-informed care.

When the World Feels Unsafe: The Mental Health Toll of Violent News and Social Media Exposure

Have you ever felt sick to your stomach after scrolling through your feed? Found yourself anxious, angry, or emotionally numb after watching yet another breaking news story about mass violence or global conflict?

You're not alone.

In a digital age where headlines shout trauma and our screens constantly refresh with graphic images, many people find themselves overwhelmed, emotionally dysregulated, or trapped in a persistent state of fear. But what is all this exposure to violence actually doing to our brains and bodies?

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we understand how trauma doesn’t just come from what happens directly to us—it can also come from what we witness, especially when it's repeated and unprocessed. This article explores the neuroscience behind media-induced trauma, how violent content affects mental health, and how to find hope, regulation, and healing in a chaotic world.

The Hidden Cost of Consuming Violent Media

From mass shootings to natural disasters to wars livestreamed in real-time, media exposure today is unlike anything previous generations faced. While staying informed is essential, the 24/7 news cycle and social media algorithms are not designed to support our emotional well-being but to keep us watching.

The brain responds to violent imagery—whether witnessed in person or through a screen—by activating the same neural pathways associated with direct trauma (Porges, 2011). This means even passive exposure can dysregulate your nervous system, trigger your fight-flight-freeze response, and lead to symptoms of:

    – Anxiety or panic
    – Depression
    – Hypervigilance
    – Irritability or emotional numbness
    – Sleep disturbances
    – Difficulty concentrating
    – Increased relational tension or withdrawal

Why Does Watching the News Feel So Overwhelming?

Because your nervous system wasn’t built for this.

From a neuroscience perspective, the amygdala, the part of the brain responsible for detecting threats, cannot always distinguish between real-time danger and a reported danger—especially when the imagery is graphic or repeated (LeDoux, 1996). Each time you see a violent video or hear a disturbing report, your brain and body react as if the threat is near.

You may feel emotionally hijacked, exhausted, or like you're “on edge” all the time. This is not a weakness—it’s biology.

In fact, prolonged exposure to media violence can contribute to vicarious trauma or compassion fatigue, especially in individuals who are highly empathic, have a trauma history, or work in helping professions (Figley, 1995).

Are You Asking Yourself…

     – Why can’t I handle watching the news anymore?
    – Why do I feel so anxious after being online?
    - Why am I more reactive with my partner or kids after scrolling through social media?
    – Why do I feel hopeless or disconnected even though nothing “bad” is happening in my life?

These are valid, important questions. If the emotional weight of violent media is affecting your mental health, you're not weak or overly sensitive. You’re responding to chronic activation of your stress response—and you deserve support and regulation.

Hope, Healing, and the Path to Resilience

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we believe that resilience is not about “toughening up” or ignoring what's happening in the world. It’s about creating internal safety in the midst of external chaos.

Using neuroscience-backed approaches like somatic therapy, EMDR, Polyvagal Theory, and mindfulness-based interventions, we help clients:

     – Calm an overactive nervous system
    – Reprocess vicarious trauma
    – Rebuild emotional regulation
    – Reconnect with their bodies and inner safety
    – Develop mindful media boundaries
    – Strengthen relationships and intimacy, even during hard times

What You Can Do Today: Small Steps Toward Mental Resilience

Here are a few gentle practices to support your nervous system and reduce media-induced emotional dysregulation:

1. Create a News Ritual

Instead of checking updates randomly throughout the day, set specific times to read or watch the news. Choose trustworthy sources that present information without sensationalism.

2. Notice the Impact

After consuming violent content, pause. Ask: How am I feeling? What do I need? Bring awareness to your breath, body, and emotional state. This is the beginning of self-regulation.

3. Use the 3-3-3 Technique

To come back to the present moment:

     – Name 3 things you can see
    – Name 3 things you can hear
    – Move 3 parts of your body
This helps interrupt the brain’s stress response and grounds you in safety.

4. Somatic Therapy

A trauma-informed, body-centered approach that helps individuals regulate emotional overwhelm caused by repeated exposure to violent news and distressing media. When the brain perceives a threat—whether real or witnessed through a screen—it triggers the same stress response, flooding the nervous system with anxiety, fear, and helplessness. Somatic therapy helps calm this chronic activation by guiding clients to gently reconnect with their bodies, release stored tension, and restore a sense of internal safety. At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, our somatic therapists support clients in processing the emotional impact of media violence, reducing anxiety, and building resilience—so they can feel grounded and empowered in an increasingly chaotic world.

5. Curate Your Feed

Mute or unfollow accounts that spike anxiety or push graphic imagery without context. Follow accounts that share beauty, healing, inspiration, or grounded news commentary.

6. Talk About It

Name what you’re feeling with someone you trust. Isolation amplifies emotional overwhelm. Connection helps metabolize it.

Why This Matters for Intimacy and Relationships

When our nervous systems are dysregulated, it doesn’t just affect our individual well-being—it ripples into how we relate to others. You might notice more conflict, avoidance, or detachment in your relationships. Or perhaps you find yourself needing more reassurance but feel ashamed to ask.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we support couples and individuals in navigating the emotional fallout of collective trauma—including the way violent media can disrupt intimacy, trust, and co-regulation. You don’t have to navigate this alone.

When to Reach Out for Help

If you notice symptoms like chronic anxiety, emotional numbness, irritability, or hopelessness after exposure to violent media—or if these symptoms are impacting your relationships, work, or self-esteem—it's time to seek support.

Our trauma-informed therapists and somatic practitioners are here to help you reclaim your inner calm, strengthen your emotional resilience, and reconnect with your sense of agency and peace.

You Deserve to Feel Safe in Your Body Again

The world may feel chaotic, but healing is possible. With the right tools and support, you can regulate your nervous system, protect your peace, and engage with the world from a grounded, empowered place.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we offer personalized therapy, intensives, and somatic healing experiences to help you navigate these modern stressors with grace and resilience.

Let’s Take the Next Step Together

Ready to explore how media exposure is affecting your mental health—and how to restore regulation and connection?

Contact us today to schedule a free 20-minute consultation with our team of top-rated therapists and trauma specialists to learn more about our trauma-informed therapy services in Los Angeles and Nashville.

📞 Call us at (310) 651-8458

📱 Text us at (310) 210-7934

📩 Email us at admin@embodiedwellnessandrecovery.com

🔗 Visit us at www.embodiedwellnessandrecovery.com

👉 Check us out on Instagram @embodied_wellness_and_recovery

🌍 Explore our offerings at Linktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/laurendummit

References

Figley, C. R. (1995). Compassion Fatigue: Coping with Secondary Traumatic Stress Disorder in Those Who Treat the Traumatized. Brunner/Mazel.

LeDoux, J. E. (1996). The Emotional Brain: The Mysterious Underpinnings of Emotional Life. Simon and Schuster.

Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. W. W. Norton & Company.